20 Minutes to Better Sex in Your Marriage
Let’s say you’ve been married for a short period of time like I have. Hopefully, your marriage is one of laughter, communication and sharing. And while everything on the outside is looking and feeling great, life has gotten in the way of more intimate moments.
In other words, the humping ain’t like it used to be back in the dating days.
But you can change all of that in just 20 minutes. No acrobatics necessary and no purchases necessary to discover new pleasures and passion in a meaningful relationship.
5 min. - Think about what you want out of your sexual experience. Not just fantasies, but what really makes the emotional connection for you in sex. If you can’t think of anything, you should probably take the full 20 minutes for this part.
10 min. - Take this time to talk with your partner about what you want. It might take a little longer than that, but five minutes of solid communication and solid listening without bias can be a really good aphrodisiac. And an incredible trust builder; absolutely necessary for good sex.
5 min. - If you have approached the last 15 minutes with honesty and candor, you should be in the mood for intense intimacy, so now it’s time to hurry up and wait. Don’t rush to sex, but rush to take time to understand how much it means. Hold hands for a while, try to recapture the way a first kiss feels.
Then, get to the humping.