Your Job is Your Credit
In marriage, there aren’t too many times that you are going to get outward credit for what you bring to the relationship and the family. You being a man, of course. Because your job, in theory, is to show appreciation for everything that your wife does.
Don’t get me wrong, that’s not a small job. Mostly because your wife does that much work for the family and for you. Consider where you would be without her culinary abilities, psychological assessment capabilities, and her knowledge of all services erotic. Not a pretty vision without her, right?
Of course you could do without the nagging, the arguing, and the emotional rollercoasters. But the truth is that you, just like millions of us out there, love the drama. It’s an even trade-off for all of the good times. And if you have to get grits thrown on you in a fit of rage, so be it. At least she was making you breakfast.
Ultimately, your reward is in her validation. For you to live well, she must feel much more than well. Appreciated isn’t the right word…more like….exalted. And don’t let your pride get the best of you, she is worth it. The more you tell her how great she looks, how good her food is, and how nice it is to talk to her, the more good stuff you are bound to receive in turn.
After all, her job in life is to make you happy.
