Don’t Fall Into a Sexless Marriage
Seriously, if you think about the last time you had sex with your spouse and it’s been so long that you have to think more than three seconds, call your husband or wife up right now and tell them how much you are looking forward to getting those drawers tonight.
Seriously.
There’s only but so many things that can break up a happy couple, and both of them can ultimately lead into each other. A lack of money and a lack of sex can really mess up your relationship. I don’t know what its like to be sexless, but I know what its like to be afraid of the prospect. My wife and I stay busy, and when you throw in the usual pressure of thinking “shouldn’t we be having sex like crazy,” you can get to a point where you think something is wrong beyond just making the time to be intimate with each other.
That’s what it all comes down to. Making time. Even if you are having emotional problems, financial problems, sex can be the capstone to a deep and meaningful conversation where feelings are shared and understanding is cultivated. There’s no reason to be sexless, and if you think I’m making it too simple, think about why you got married in the first place.
Because you were comfortable with the prospect of making love with one person for the rest of your life.
Continue to be.
