Archive for June, 2009

The Best Piece of Marriage Advice I Ever Received

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

I can’t even remember who said it, for some reason, a grocery store comes to mind. But it comes as no surprise to me that an elderly face was the genesis of the best piece of marriage advice I ever received.
Like my father, I have no problem initiating random conversations with random people in random [...]

Debbie Rowe and the “Sham Marriage” to Michael Jackson

Monday, June 29th, 2009

The only thing sadder than the sudden death of a loved one is drama that soon circulates without the person being able to defend themselves. That is the case now with Debbie Rowe, the former wife of Michael Jackson and surrogate mother to his two children, whom she now claims are not biologically his.
Rowe, who [...]

Love is Like a Greased Pig

Thursday, June 25th, 2009

Not the cleanest analogy you could come up with, but very true.
H/T – Pastor Mark Gungor, whom I recently discovered on Twitter. Follow him. He’s got some good resources on love and marriage.

The Best and Worst Parts of Being Married

Thursday, June 25th, 2009

The best thing about being married is that you are constantly learning, and loving the things you learn about your spouse. If you’ve picked the right person, you’ve found that they are constantly evolving in their outlook on life, love and everything in between. For the selfish brat in you, it’s time to rejoice because [...]

Five Signs That You Are Ready to Get Married

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

Having been in the game for almost two years, I can tell you a little something about being married.
It takes an extreme amount of arrogance. What else can it be when you can fully commit your life to monogamy, changes in lifestyle, and a total submersion of your feelings into someone else’s actions?
Knowing that, you’ll [...]

Rick Warren Breaks Down How to Make Marriage Work

Tuesday, June 16th, 2009

I have to say, the more I hear from Rick Warren, the cooler I think he is. He comes off more as a zestful follower of God than a crazy zealot, and I can appreciate that.
Here’s the pastor breaking down how to make marriage work. It’s worth the few minutes to watch it.

The Five Behaviors of a Healthy Marriage

Monday, June 15th, 2009

My wife and I spent a big part of our weekend talking with a dear friend whose marriage is in a bad spot. For a variety of internal and external reasons, the union is on a bad course and looks to be heading towards ending.
It got me thinking of things that make a marriage happy [...]

Usher Getting Divorced?

Friday, June 12th, 2009

Usher and Tameka Foster, his wife of two years and mother of his two children, are getting divorced.
No way anybody saw this one coming. Not in a million years.

Splitting Your Personalities

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

Life will wear you down if you let it. You can spend so much time working hard for your family to get ahead, that your family gets the worst of you. The tired, grumpy, inattentive, disengaged you.
And nobody wants that.
Think of your life as two distinct personalities. There is a personality that your profession and [...]

Swing and a Miss

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

One of the luxuries my wife and I enjoy is the ability to tell each other what we truly think. It may go through a couple “nothing’s wrongs,” but eventually, we get out what we need to say to each other. And it usually turns out to be the best thing for each other, because [...]

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