Archive for July, 2009

How To Save Your Marriage From Your Kids

Wednesday, July 29th, 2009

Here’s a good article on CNN.com about how to preserve your marriage while grinding out parenthood. Oh, don’t mind me; I’ll be over here in the corner cowering and praying for the next two months.

JK Wedding Dance Video

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Some critical things to recognize about this video. 1. My wife is highly upset that we didn’t think of this first. 2. Perhaps this video can be the first step to the country’s forgiveness of Chris Brown. Just saying.

Saving Black Marriages

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

In case you thought that affluence and resources could make a marriage strong, check out my folks from my hometown of Prince George’s County working to save their relationship. Two successful people, nothing to worry about financially. Still, they are going through the same drama and mismanaged expectations that most folks go through. Very interesting [...]

Vacation in Chicago

Monday, July 20th, 2009

The Mrs., baby-to-be and I are all packing up and headed to the Midwest for a fun week in Chicago. I’ve never been, but I’ve been told it’s a wonderful place to spend time and eat good. So, I won’t be posting until next Tuesday sometime. But you can keep up with all of my [...]

The Number One Reason Why Your Marriage is Hard

Thursday, July 16th, 2009

Cars need gas to run. You regularly fill them up with gasoline that costs money. You expect the car to regularly need gas, and prepare for when it runs out or comes close to it. Yet, you don’t approach your marriage with the same methodical approach. This is the number one reason why your marriage [...]

The Look of Parenthood

Thursday, July 9th, 2009

Lord willing, the little baby that is growing within my wife will grow up fast and healthy. My wife and I know this going into it, so we know that we just have to hold on for the ride and try to hold back the tears from time moving so fast. But if we are [...]

On Steve McNair and Infidelity

Monday, July 6th, 2009

The case of Steve McNair, what ever it turns out to be, is going to have a lasting impact on millions of people. His wife and children will be the most impacted by such a sudden and profound tragedy, but the hope is that scores of people who are disrespecting their marriages take a lesson [...]

Unstoppable vs. Immovable: No One Ever Wins

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

You’ve heard the old adage of an unstoppable force meeting an immovable object? That’s our household today. An argument leads to separation, accusation, and a lack of emotional penetration on either side. Don’t get me wrong; there’s no long-term damage or foreseeable circumstance that would lead to a REAL separation, but it’s definitely at a [...]

A Love and Marriage Blog