How To Spend Quality Time With Your Wife
The problem with quality time is that guys think its non-negotiable. Pop culture has taught everybody that quality time is spent doing any activity of your wife’s choosing; because what she wants to do usually gets pushed to the rear.
And it’s true, some things your wife wants to do often get pushed to the rear. But if you are in the right relationship, and are mastering communication, quality time can be whatever you two negotiate it to be.
Take the emphasis off of the time and think more in terms of the quality. Consider emailing your wife a brief quiz, like, “What are my top five favorites outfits you wear?” Or, “What is my second favorite dessert?”
I just emailed my wife and challenged her to guess my favorite catchphrases of hers. If she gets it in time, and isn’t too groggy to respond, she may answer and nail three out of five. And we’ll laugh about it later.
Quality time.
That’s just one example, but there are a lot of ideas you can come up with to learn new things about your wife, and to engage her in ways you never have. That leads to interest and dedication, two things you never want to lose from your best girl.
