Archive for the 'Communication' Category

The Politics of It

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

If you didn’t get a chance to catch the “Does My Wife Have A Crush on Chris Brown?” post, I apologize. First time in blog history that she took much exception with the content matter, so I had to remove it. I’m sure Chris Brown isn’t sweating it, with everything else going on in the [...]

Changing of the Guard

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

These days, I’m a lot less guarded around my wife. I know that’s probably a shameful thing to say, considering that we’ve been married for more than a year now, but I no longer feel inhibited by machismo to share with my wife what’s going on with me personally.
Don’t get me wrong; I’m built Charmin [...]

How To Resolve an Argument With Your Wife

Monday, July 28th, 2008

Now that is a question for the ages. You’ve duked it out, said some things you should have, heard some things you’d rather not have, and one of you have stormed off contemplating what life would be like without the other.
That’s okay. That’s normal. What’s not normal is if you are seeking a permanent solution [...]

Tired of Being Tired

Thursday, July 10th, 2008

A word to all of my believers out there. The devil is a liar.
I know this to be true, as fatigue can be one of his most powerful weapons.
Fresh off of a wonderful vacation, which was capped off by the second-most emotionally fulfilling day of my life, I compose this entry from the living room [...]

Burial Ground

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

My wife and I attended the funeral of a very sweet lady today. She lived a long life of service to the Lord, and kind deeds and words unto all who knew her. Her life and passage into its next phase gave me reason to consider the parallels of life and death within a relationship.
Joy [...]

Room to Forgive

Monday, March 17th, 2008

Somewhere along the line, I learned that the universe has a few basic rules to it. One of the most important ones is that for every action, there’s an equal and opposite reaction. Must’ve been a newly-married guy who came up with that one, because it’s one of the most important lessons I have learned [...]

Wait Til’ The Midnight Hour

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

Rarely do my wife and I fight. You might look at the entries of this blog and have the impression that’s it’s often enough to note, but it’s really not. Last night we had one that was totally on me.
I don’t do enough house work.
I’m a lazy bump on a log, I know. But I [...]

The Love Doctor is In

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008

One benefit (or misfortune) of getting married is that you become a lightning rod for all questions and inquires about relationships and marriage. It’s not an everyday thing, but it’s not uncommon for friends to call me up and ask about communication techniques, conflict resolution, and where to take a date for good Italian food.
Of [...]

An Ex-Rated Apology

Sunday, February 10th, 2008

Lately, I’ve been thinking about my ex-girlfriends a lot. No, not in the way that you might be thinking or what’s common to see on television, but thinking about how happy I am versus how unhappy I made other people in my past. Youth, a lot of anger and little understanding on how to manage [...]

Weekend of Arguing

Monday, January 28th, 2008

So basically what began as a small argument eventually evolved into a weekend full of them. Mapquest was the starting point, but we eventually started sniping at each other about when to go to the movies, forgetting to go to the ATM, and it all got topped off with a personal favorite, me sitting in [...]

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