Archive for the 'Pregnancy' Category

Baby Talk

Monday, October 12th, 2009

Just two weeks left until the projected birth day for our child. And the way my wife is feeling, I don’t think we’ll make it that long.
In the months leading up to this point, most of the conversation between my wife and I has been about preparation. How are we going to appoint the baby’s [...]

How to Duck Mood Swings

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

I can’t even call it mood swings…They’re more like haymakers. One day, I’m doing a great job as a husband and friend, and I’m a joy to be around. The next day, I never listen and I’m selfish.
Just like that.
And to be honest, I can’t blame her at all. There’s just over a month left [...]

The God in Her

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

We are quickly approaching the halfway mark of our pregnancy, and each growing day, I develop a stronger appreciation for what it means for my wife’s physical changes – just to bring a child into this world. The sickness is not a daily or nightly exercise in suffering, but the fatigue, the emotions and the [...]

Drive Slow

Monday, April 20th, 2009

What happens to your dreams when your life’s purpose veers from self-fulfillment to the growth of your family? Do you happily trade them in for precious moments of celebration? Intimate times of comfort and stability?
Most of all, does life shift from fourth to second gear easily?
My life is changing right before me. I never really [...]

Invisible Man

Thursday, April 16th, 2009

Any other guys out there ever noticed that when your wife is pregnant, she gets all of the attention? Like you had nothing to do with it?
Every where we go, “How are you feeling, girl?” “Are you getting sick?” “I hope you’re eating well.”
What about how I’m feeling? Maybe I could get sick from nervousness? [...]

Life Tastes Better at KFC

Monday, April 6th, 2009

Tonight’s hunger for the baby is KFC. And the thing about fried chicken, aside from being the stereotypical bane of any black person’s existence, its one of the worst things that I can eat as a father-to-be trying to stay fit for the big birthday coming this Fall.
I’m a sucker for fried chicken. It’s a [...]

The Hunger For More

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Almost three months into our pregnancy, and it appears that baby is making my wife far less tired and a lot hungrier. Snoring has been traded in for baked potatoes and pizza, which are two of the baby’s favorite food selections in recent days.
She is still frustrated with awkward eating patterns, particularly because she doesn’t [...]

Five Ways to Make Your Pregnant Wife Happy

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

Two months into our pregnancy adventure, I believe that I’ve found the key to happiness. At least in the first trimester.
Here’s the five ways to keep your pregnant wife happy.

Baby Love

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

I saw my child for the very first time yesterday afternoon, and even through the shades of gray of the sonogram, I knew that God had blessed me with the second love of my life.
The child was smaller than the width of my fingertip. But at eight weeks and one day, the doctor was able [...]

The One

Monday, March 16th, 2009

Tomorrow we go for our very first sonogram, and I can’t begin to describe the unique excitement that I feel for the moment where we can see what God has done for us. The baby has already changed our lives in so many positive ways. It seems like we are a lot more in tune [...]

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